I quibble a little with demographers about their delineations of “generations” and their insistence these granfalloons actually exist and that most of us as members are very much alike. I do get the concept and its occasional usefulness. I am very aware how permanently date stamped I am growing up in the fifties and sixties. … [read more]
Narrative
Hello In There
Looking into another’s eyes has always been magically super-charged for me. It’s been the conduit for connection or conflict, synergy and sexual attraction, inspiration and enlightenment. But, doing so when we are older, six, seven, eight, or more decades into this life is another matter altogether. I experience a rich depth and a poignant texture … [read more]
You’re Fired! Bad TV, worse leadership
We all know Mark Burnett’s tawdry contribution to American culture, The Apprentice television program, that haunted the airwaves from 2004 to 2017. This “reality” program was far from reality in the actual business world, showcasing a male-dominated, authoritarian, top-down, 1950’s management style, largely repudiated in more recent times, and firmly challenged by more modern … [read more]
Cat Dharma
When we got married, Sandy had two twin Tonkinese boys, litter mates. I grew to love them. They’re gone now. But their personalities were a gentle teaching. Rico was the bigger of the two, darker in color, slower and more cautious, tentative, and reserved. I felt the weight of his fear and judgments. He was … [read more]
Portmanteau for a coup
Anonymosity noun / Hostile feelings toward those we don’t know. / Although I clearly hold the correct opinion and they are utterly delusional, I strive to temper my anonymosity.
A lesson in connection
I Image: Ruel del Jamorol Interconnectedness reveals itself in innumerable ways, most very subtle, often hidden. Few are this disarming I have been staunchly anti-war since I was a teenager, confidently so, smugly perhaps, schooled on Howard Zinn, Staughton Lynd, Tom Hayden, and David Harris. But my commitment was never tested. I read … [read more]



